El 18 de septiembre y mi familia
Hello,
Again, I am about a week behind in writing!
El 18 de Septiembre: the day that is celebrated and looked forward to the most of the year. There is about a week of celebration before and after the 18th. Here is my story of the week:
Thursday, September 14, 2006 was the first day of the great fiesta that they call Fiestas Patrias here in Chile. After classes on Thursday I went home and worked on some homework. That night I went to a Ramada, pretty much just a big party outside where they dance cueca and drink chicha. The Ramada was sponsored and planned by Educación Fisica (the students in Physical Education) at La Católica. It was a good time, except that we got there about 2 hours too early. For the first hour and half there was no one there except for us and the people who were working the Ramada! It was pretty boring at first, but we had a good time talking. After awhile people started to show up and we started to have a much better time, but we had plans to go out to Scratch, a discotèque in Viña, that night with a friend. When Lee and I told her that we wanted to stay at the Ramada she got frustrated with, which made it very difficult to stay. To avoid the repercussions of staying and making her mad, Lee and I left and went to Scratch. This has to this point been the thing that I have regretted doing the most of my time in Chile because for the first time, there were Chileans talking to me and I was having a really good time and there are only Ramadas once a year, during Fiestas Patrias and Scratch is there all the time. Oh well, I guess, you live and you learn. From this experience I learned that I have to stick up for myself more and do what I truly want to do rather than going along with one person wants to do to make them happy because if I don´t listen to my heart and do what I really want I am not going to be happy!
On Friday and Sunday nights I went to other Ramadas, one was in Valparaiso and the other in Viña. They were much bigger as it was something that the public could attend and not just for the University. They reminded me a lot of a state fair, but on a smaller scale, with carnival games and rides and booths that sell food. There were also places that you could pay to enter to dance, cueca and other types of dance.
For the 18th, the big day, I went to a party/Ramada at the house of a Chilean and another student from my program. This was a huge event with about 50 people, dancing, singing, drinking, eating, and in general just having a great time until the wee hours of the morning. I had a very good time, but was very ready for my bed when I got home at about 6am (eek!)
During the days I spent time with my family. On Saturday I went to Limache (a town between Santiago and Viña) and then to the mountains with Lelo and Fernanda. Fernanda´s brother lives in Limache, so we went to there house first because we were riding with them up to their son´s cabana in the mountains. Her brother has three houses on his property. He and his wife live in one and they rent the other two (he designed and built all of the houses himself!). The cabana was also designed by him and it was absolutely beautiful! We were up in the mountains all day. The day was beautiful and warm. We had an asado (barbeque) of steak, pork and blood sausage (I opted not to eat the blood sausage as I had consumed it while I was in Peru). After eating all of the food there, I was so full that I could not eat for the rest of the day!
On Monday Lelo and I walked down to the ocean and bought kites from a street vendor. Lelo tested all the kites for their flight factor with a strong wind (they had to have some slack in the paper so they didn´t rip in the wind). While he was testing his kites a couple of women walked up to buy kites and he started talking to them about the kites and what makes a good kite, totally selling them on a kite. After the women were convinced that he was the vendor, the real vendor walked up to make the exchange of kite for money and the women were shocked and did not believe her when she told them that Lelo was buying a kite! Needless to say I was laughing the entire time! After we had our kites and our string, we headed to El Estadio Español (a club for people with Spanish ancestory) in Recreo, a part of Viña. There was a competition for flying kites on Monday, but we were too old to participate, apparently you had to be a little kid flying your kite with a parent. Lelo was bummed because he wanted to win, but we flew our kites anyway. Lelo is a kite flying pro! He knows all about the knots to tie to make the kite fly differently, how to get the kite in the air, how to keep it in the air, pretty much everything! He taught me how to fly a kite in about five minutes and then I was flying the kite solo without any help. After our kite flying expedition we went to another asado in at Fernanda´s cousin´s (Amparo) daughter´s (Mari) house in Viña. Fernanda is the youngest of five children by ten years. Her oldest brother is about 20 years older than she is. Amparo is about 25 years older than she is so Mari is about the same age as Fernanda. Again I ate a lot of food, but this time there were more veggies and I ate chicken rather than steak or pork. After eating we sat around the dining room table talking. It reminded me of our family after big dinners: telling stories, laughing, and debating the origins of pisco and dulce de leche. It was very entertaining.
Lelo and I left a bit early to go home to rest before the big night. On our walk home I learned a lot about my extended family. I am living in a family with money. Fernanda´s dad had a lot of land when Fernanda was younger and up until about 10 years ago when he sold it to someone who built a low-income housing development on it. From the sale of the land he made a lot of money. Fernanda´s mom and siblings grew up in a house that is now the town hall of a town in between Viña and Limache. It is really big (I guess the town government kicked the family out of the house when Fernanda´s grandma died, but I am not totally clear on the story). Amparo, Fernanda´s cousin, is married to one of the richest men in Chile. When Amparo´s dad died, he left her a substantial amount of money. With this money Amparo´s husband invested in parts of some food enterprise. He sold out his shares of this enterprise to put the money into a company called Costo, a producer and distribuiter of cookies and crackers, where he has made millions. He and Amparo are separated, but not divorced and Amparo receives about 50% of the profits. Their children are in charge of the business in Argentina and the U.S.A. Lelo´s parents died many years ago. His mom died in 1979 of cancer; his dad, of a heart attack in 1983. He and Fernanda met when Fernanda was doing her student teaching in the school that Lelo was teaching at. They started dating and got married in 1984.
Once again, I have written another long post. I have to go and study now.
Love,
Kathy
